Quote Of The Week: unknown

“Laugh as much as you breathe and love as long as you live.” -unknown



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Poem of the Week: Get Away... (revised)

Get Away... (revised)
By Heavenly


Can we go
I wanna leave with you
somewhere far away
Hey Love...
take me in your arms
hold me tight
and take me away from here
We need to get away
let's leave tonight
Can we go
I can't stay here anymore
I need to leave now
Hey Babe...
I wanna go somewhere
where nobody could find us
let's get away
just you and me
Can we go
you know you wanna leave
you ain't gotta front
Hey sexy...
just picture us together
in a beautiful place
we'll make love, love
and more love
It would be great.
Can we go
can't you just imagine
how wonderful it would be
Hey beautiful...
We can get high
in each other's arms
from each other's love
I just wanna love you
'cause you are my love
Can we go
you might need this
a lot more than me
Hey cutie...
get close to me
I want you so close to me
that I can feel your heart
next to mine
We don't need to be apart
Can we go
are you ready to get away
and spend some time with me
Babe...
I'm not waiting anymore
I need to be with you
I want your body
and everything else
so let's get away




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Hello -Beyonce

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Say Something (Remix) -Nivea & Rasheeda

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Successful Relationship Tips

By Parul Solanki


Many of us spend days, even years finding the one person who we think would be right for us, our perfect soul mate. However, as the relationship with the so called "soulmate" progresses, it is strange that the subtle quirks that you liked so much about him/her have become so "toe-curlingly" annoying. The result: broken hearts, pain and not to forget the high rates of divorce. So why are the relationships we have restricted to casual flings rather than something more meaningful and permanent? Well, as much as we may try to find it elsewhere, the key to successful and healthy relationships lie within us. Here are some successful relationship tips that you can use to build a solid foundation and find the depth in your relationships to make it last a lifetime.

Tips for a Successful Relationship
Long Term Commitment: The inclusion of this as the very first point indicates the importance of commitment towards a relationship. An absence of it can lead to frustration, anger and infidelity sooner or later in the relationship. A vision of the future of the relationship is what binds people together.

Like Each Other: People choose partners based on the common interests, passion and thought processes. Although liking each other may sound quite simplistic, it is quite an important factor for a successful relationship. Most people stick on to a bad relationship just because they feel they cannot get anyone better. Thus it is a good idea to probe into your partner’s mind questioning simple things like interests, hobbies, career goals. This will make it easier for you to understand the person and whether you want to spend your life with him or her.

Communication: Without proper communication a relationship can never thrive. Hidden resentments need to be vented out or else they can poison any relationship. This of course involves talking as well as listening. While most people are good at venting out their emotions and feelings, only a handful of people actually LISTEN. Hear out what your partner has to say, understand his or her decisions and then put forth your viewpoint. Encouraging your partner to listen and listening when he or she has something to say makes the other person feel appreciated and special.

Spend Time Together: As our schedules become hectic and children take a significant portion of our time and attention, spending quality time together can slip down our list of priorities. However, it is important to find time for one another. Remember the time when you fell in love. The urgency and need to meet the other person may not be sustainable in the long run but spending time on a daily basis is just as important one year down the line as it was when you first fell head over heels in love with him or her.

Arguments: Arguments are a part of life and any relationship will have its set of misunderstandings. Remember that you are two different individuals with separate thought processes and relationship issues are bound to crop up sometime. So arguing is just a part of human nature and is a way of flexing individual personalities. However, it is a good idea to understand your limits in an argument. Physical and verbal abuse is a crime and should not be resorted to in any circumstance.

Affection: Simple things like holding hands, a hug and even a smile can light up our lives. Keep the chemistry alive by taking her out on long romantic drives or cooking him a romantic dinner.

Acceptance: Change is inevitable in our lives and over a period of time everyone and almost everything changes. While some may be easier to accept, others may be difficult for a couple to adjust to. However, remember that in every successful relationship adapting to changes and accepting them is a part of our lives.
While most of these successful relationship tips might sound quite familiar, in our everyday rat race we forget to implement them. The result is a relationship breakup and a host of other issues. So spend time together, laugh, cry and love each other and in no time you too will be in a successful loving relationship that lasts a lifetime. Good Luck!


Article Source:http://www.buzzle.com/articles/successful-relationship-tips.html



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E.T. -Katy Perry

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Lyrics Of The Week: E.T.

E.T.
Katy Perry & Kanye West


K[Kanye West]
I got a dirty mind
I got filthy ways
I'm tryna Bath my Ape in your Milky Way
I'm a legend, I'm irreverent
I be reverand
I be so fa-a-ar up, we don't give a f-f-f-f-ck
Welcome to the danger zone
Step into the fantasy
You are not invited to the otherside of sanity
They calling me an alien
A big headed astronaut
Maybe it's because your boy Yeezy get ass a lot

[Katy Perry]
You're so hypnotizing
Could you be the devil
Could you be an angel

Your touch magnetizing
Feels like I am floating
Leaves my body glowing

They say be afraid
You're not like the others
Futuristic lover
Different DNA
They don't understand you

Your from a whole other world
A different dimension
You open my eyes
And I'm ready to go
Lead me into the light

Kiss me, ki-ki-kiss me
Infect me with your love and
Fill me with your poison

Take me, ta-ta-take me
Wanna be a victim
Ready for abduction

Boy, you're an alien
Your touch so foreign
It's supernatural
Extraterrestrial

Your so supersonic
Wanna feel your powers
Stun me with your lasers
Your kiss is cosmic
Every move is magic

Your from a whole other world
A different dimension
You open my eyes
And I'm ready to go
Lead me into the light

Kiss me, ki-ki-kiss me
Infect me with your love and
Fill me with your poison

Take me, ta-ta-take me
Wanna be a victim
Ready for abduction

Boy, you're an alien
Your touch so foreign
It's supernatural
Extraterrestrial

[Kanye West]
I know a bar out in Mars
Where they driving spaceships instead of cars
Cop a Prada spacesuit about the stars
Getting stupid ass straight out the jar
Pockets on Shrek, Rockets on deck
Tell me what's next, alien sex
I'ma disrobe you, than I'mma probe you
See I abducted you, so I tell ya what to do
I tell ya what to do, what to do, what to do

[Katy Perry]
Kiss me, ki-ki-kiss me
Infect me with your love and
Fill me with your poison

Take me, ta-ta-take me
Wanna be a victim
Ready for abduction

Boy, you're an alien
Your touch so foreign
It's supernatural
Extraterrestrial

Extraterrestrial
Extraterrestrial

Boy, you're an alien
Your touch so foreign
It's supernatural
Extraterrestrial



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Lyrics Of The Week: The Light

The Light
-Common


Yeah..
Doo-doo-doo, mmm-mmm-mmm-mmm-mmm..
Doo-doo-d-doo, diggy-doo YO..

I never knew a luh, luh-luh, a love like this
Gotta be somethin for me to write this
Queen, I ain't seen you in a minute
Wrote this letter, and finally decide to send it
Signed sealed delivered for us to grow together
Love has no limit, let's spend it slow forever
I know your heart is weathered by what studs did to you
I ain't gon' assault em cause I probably did it too
Because of you, feelings I handle with care
Some niggaz recognize the light but they can't handle the glare
You know I ain't the type to walk around with matchin shirts
If relationship is effort I will match your work
I wanna be the one to make you happiest, and hurt you the most
They say the end is near, it's important that we close..
.. to the most, high
Regardless of what happen on him let's rely

There are times.. when you'll need someone..
I will be by your side..
There is a light, that shines,
special for you, and me..

Yo, yo, check it
It's important, we communicate
and tune the fate of this union, to the right pitch
I never call you my bitch or even my boo
There's so much in a name and so much more in you
Few understand the union of woman and man
And sex and a tingle is where they assume that it land
But that's fly by night for you and the sky I write
For in these cold Chi night's moon, you my light
If heaven had a height, you would be that tall
Ghetto to coffee shop, through you I see that all
Let's stick to understandin and we won't fall
For better or worse times, I hope to me you call
So I pray everyday more than anything
friends will stay as we begin to lay
this foundation for a family - love ain't simple
Why can't it be anything worth having you work at annually
Granted we known each other for some time
It don't take a whole day to recognize sunshine

There are times.. when you'll need someone..
I will be by your side, oh darling
There is a light, that shines,
special for you, and me..

Yeah.. yo, yo, check it
It's kinda fresh you listen to more than hip-hop
and I can catch you in the mix from beauty to thrift shop
Plus you ship hop when it's time to, thinkin you fresh
Suggestin beats I should rhyme to
At times when I'm lost I try to find you
You know to give me space when it's time to
My heart's dictionary defines you, as love and happiness
Truthfully it's hard tryin to practice abstinence
The time we committed love it was real good
Had to be for me to arrive and it still feel good
I know the sex ain't gon' keep you, but as my equal
it's how I must treat you
As my reflection in light I'ma lead you
And whatever's right, I'ma feed you
Ticka tah, ticka tah, ticka ticka tickah
Yo I tell you the rest when I see you, peace

There are times.. when you'll need someone..
I will be by your side..
There is a light, that shines,
special for you, and me..

(I'll) take my chances.. before they pass..
.. pass me by, oh darling..
You need to look at the other side..
You'll agree..


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I Want You -Common

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I Love You I Do -Jennifer Hudson

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Spotlight -Jennifer Hudson

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Quote Of The Week: Pearl S. Buck

“Some are kissing mothers and some are scolding mothers, but it is love just the same, and most mothers kiss and scold together.”   -Pearl S. Buck


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Poem Of The Week: Lost

Lost
-Arielle


I don’t know if you’re pushing me away or pulling me closer
I don’t know where I stand
I don’t know what you want from me
Or if you care at all

Your words lash out and hurt
Then lovingly draw me in
I don’t know what you want from me
Do you want this to end

Don’t turn tables
Or place this on me
Just come out and tell me
What it is you want

I can’t read minds
I don’t know where I stand
Are you pushing me away
Or are you going to finally let me in


Poem Source:http://www.poemslovers.com/love_poems/lost_love/poems/5598.html



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Don't Mess With My Man -Nivea & Jagged Edge

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Reasons To Love

When love is new and fresh, we can't stop thinking about what turns us on about our partner. The way her nose crinkles when she smiles; his strong, tanned forearms. We can reflect on time spent together and parlay those memories into fantasy until we are together again. The reasons to love someone are unending if we choose to consider them. Sadly, it's becoming more common to find ourselves in the middle of a breakup that takes us by surprise.

In life, we need to know what we want in order to know what we don't want. It works the same with love. There were definite traits about your partner that you found extremely appealing when you fell in love and most likely a number of opposite traits you would have found unattractive. We have to find reasons to love someone and then we have to keep on finding them. People thrive on positive reinforcement. Everyone. This may not be their number one language of love but words of affirmation go a long way toward making your partner feel appreciated. If your partner knows that what they do for you and your relationship hasn't gone unnoticed, you can be certain they are going to feel warmly toward you.

When we are kind to and appreciative of the special people in our lives, we cultivate more loving responses from them. It really is a two way street. Unfortunately, we tend to let everyday stresses become the focus of our attention and then the reasons to love someone escape us.

Very few people on this earth are telepathic -- very few are psychic. Yet we repeatedly get upset with a partner for not knowing what we want them to do (or not do) despite the fact that we never filled them in on it. We expect them to read our minds--an expectation that seems to expand with the time spent together as a couple.

When we stop communicating with each other, we stop growing as a couple. We aren't dreaming of the next house we want to buy, where we want to spend our next vacation, what our kids may grow up to be. If we stop talking we aren't encouraging the other, we aren't letting our partner know what we want. But, if the lines of communication are open, if you've asked your partner questions about what he orshe wants and doesn't want -- asked probing questions on all kinds of subjects, then you are in sync. Real harmony can be achieved and you'll find the reasons to love your partner growing every day.


Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/1420976


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Lyrics Of The Week: Sandcastle Disco

Sandcastle Disco
-Solange


Who would've known the wind and the sunshine,
Would oh baby, baby, build up these walls of mine,
And I can't see you or breathe you,
Cause there's trouble right beneath you,
It's all in the night, but ohh baby, baby,
come pick me up in your ride,
I'm a cool old Jane with a skip on my feet,
I play tough as nails with my heart on my sleeve,
I'm nothing but a sandcastle, baby don't blow me away
Away...
Chorus.
Baby I know, you do that to all the girls you know that I'm fragile
Bay-b-b-b-baby, don't blow me away,
Baby I know, you do that to all the girls you know that I'm fragile
Bay-b-b-b-baby, don't blow me away
Who would've known the storms of my past times,
Would oh baby, make me, losing the song of the eye[?]
And I can't believe you or read you,
Cause there's pleasure in your preview;it's all in your eyes,
But oh Mr. D.J, baby... can you meet me outside?
You're an old school dude with the kick on your shoes,
You got groove in your hands, the way you spin those tunes,
I'm nothing but a sandcastle, baby don't blow me away,
Away...

Chorus.
Baby I know, you do this to all the girls, baby I'm fragile
Bay-b-b-b-baby, don't blow me away,
Baby I know, you do that to all the girls you know that I'm fragile
Bay-b-b-b-baby, don't blow me away
Oo and just like the ocean (just like the ocean baby)
He's right there behind me, look over my sandcastle,
And there's a sight to see, don't blow me away...
Don't blow me baby
Bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah...
Oo baby I know, you do that to all the girls you know that I'm fragile
Bay-b-b-b-baby, don't blow me away,
Baby I know, you do that to all the girls you know that I'm fragile
And bay-b-b-b-baby, please don't blow me away
Away...away [3x]




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Sandcastle Disco -Solange

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Givin' Me A Rush -Tyra B

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Date Night Ideas for Couples

Every couple should have a “date night”. This is one night out of the week that you spend together doing something fun and different. If you’re having trouble coming up with new ideas for your dates, or are interested in starting a date night tradition with your sweetie, then read on!


Play Board Games
Try LoveGames.com for an overview of romantic and sensual games for couples. You could also go with traditional games such as Monopoly, Scrabble or Sorry. To add a romantic twist to Scrabble, modify it with the rule that all words you spell have to be on the topic of love and romance. For a huge selection of boardgames you can buy online check out BoardGames.com!

Cook Dinner Together
If you’re looking for great recipes there are plenty of websites where you can search and then print out recipes to try together. We recommend Cooking.com, the recipes are easy to search, tested, and most include a picture.

Movie Night
Cuddle up and watch a movie together. Don’t forget the snacks! If you live near a drive-in movie theatre this is a must.

Have a Romantic Evening at Home
Order take-out, indulge in a bath together with bubbles and candles, massage each other, make love.

Go House Viewing
Take a drive, or walk in a neighborhood you’de like to live in and pick out your favorite houses. On the weekends you might be able to visit open houses and tour homes that are for sale.

Enjoy a Night Out On the Town
Catch a movie or street festival, a dance, a play at the theatre or high school.

Star Gazing
Find a place away from the city lights to star gaze with your sweetie. Bring a blanket and bug repellent.

Learn to Dance
Sign up to take dance lessons once a week with your hunny.

Go Dancing
If you already know how to dance visit a nightclub that plays music you like and party like buddies.

Learn Something
Take a one-time class together. Call your local information office to find out if your city offers a fun, one-night class such as cooking, painting or pottery.

Visit a Museum
If a regular history museum screams “boring”, look into whether your city has an art museum or exhibit, a “Ripley’s Believe It or Not museum”, a wax museum, cultural museum, artifact museum, war museum or museum related to a major event from the past (ex. the Titanic museum).

Play Together
Go bowling, play pool, minigolf, iceskate or inline skating.

Get to Know your City
Visit an aquacultural or environmental tourist attraction in your city. Ideas: biodome, aquarium, planetarium, arbouritarium, botanical garden, etc.


Article Source:http://www.getromantic.com/romance/romance_tips/date_night_for_couples.html



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Quote Of The Week: George Sands

"There is only one happiness in life,
to love and be loved."
-George Sands



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