-Heavenly
Relationships come in many different forms and it is imperative that you and your partner both have a clear understanding of the kind of relationship your in. Problems will always arise when there is confusion about what kind of relationship you are in. Even if you think you know, it is still necessary to verbally express what you feel and define your relationship. It is especially important to do this when you start to feel differently about the relationship you are in. It is only fair to let your partner know when things are changing; DO NOT try to go on acting like things are still the same if they are not....that's a real punk move. Of course it may be hard to do this sometimes because you may not want to hurt your partners feelings or you may just be a coward...but in the end you will always hurt the other person more by letting them be the last to know that your feelings have changed.
When people get into relationships it often requires changes to be made in both peoples' lives; like cutting off unnecessary people in your life, not associating with your ex, and just things to show the other person that you respect the relationship you have with them. So...when you feel you don't want that type of relationship anymore (not necessarily saying it means you want to break up; although that does also apply) you owe your partner enough respect to inform them and explain why...whether they like the explanation or not...as long as it is true and you are straight up with your partner about your feelings, then you have done right on your part and they can choose to accept it or not.
~lOVE 2 B lOVED
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